Spain, 01 Nov 2016 - 06 Nov 2016

Most people say that their relationship is based on love. However, in many cases, the relationship is really based on desire. This is clear when the relationship is completely happy only in the beginning, 50% happiness and 50% pain in the middle, and by the end it is complete suffering. When our concepts of relationship and marriage are based on the same ideas as desire and property, this relationship can destroy our love and make us unhappy.

We must remember that love always makes us happy. Love is the only way to be happy! Without love, happiness doesn’t exist. It is very important to love someone. To love someone means we open that person’s heart. At the same time, we open our own heart.

Therefore, it is good to think about our own ideas and concepts and to reflect on them. Awareness of our concepts makes it possible for us not to lose love in our daily lives. Instead, love will free us from problems, make us happy and lead us to bliss.

In this teaching, Tulku Lobsang compares the true nature of love and relationships with our concepts of them. This creates an interesting perspective, which reveals the root of the problems common in our relationships. With great humor accompanied by a focus on the essentials, Tulku Lobsang shows us simple methods for cultivating and maintaining the love in our relationships.

The principle of cause and effect is the basis of Buddhism. We assume that all phenomena are result of a sequence of certain causes which in turn have causes one on the other.
This principle of mutual dependency causes us to be in a continuous circuit. This means for example that we have to take on responsibility for ourselves and our actions, as our actions do not only have effects on ourselves but as well on our fellow beings.

Tulku Lobsang offers consultations. In his capacity as doctor of Tibetan medicine and as spiritual advisor he gives consultations. 

Consultations mainly start with a pulse diagnosis. In doing so the condition of the organs, the blood and the humours are examined. in this way chronic diseases can be diagnosed. Tulku Lobsang gives advises to treat imbalances through nutrition, movement and breath or meditation techniques. It is as well possible to ask Tulku Lobsang questions regarding the own practice.

When we study Buddhist Psychology, we study the nature of the mind and how the mind functions. Once we understand this, then we can study how the mind interacts with the external world—the relationship between subject and object. The relationship between the mind and the object creates 80 different emotions. It is these emotions that make the mind unstable, uncontrollable and nonfunctional. Right now, our mind is very nonfunctional and very fixed. It is not doing what we want; it is doing what we don’t want. Therefore, it is important to understand these emotions, where they come from and how they affect the character of the mind. When we understand this, we can begin to apply tools to make the mind more balanced, more functional, more useful and more perfect.
Tulku Lobsang will give tools for participants to use themselves and also to help other people. The basis of these tools is the 108 Secret Questions. Through the right question, we can find the solution. We help people to find the solution within themselves.